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3-8 months!! That would have been nice to know!!! |

Ahh
the stress of my life right now. So months ago the pediatrician
mentioned to us that Collin's head was a little flat. So we continuously
rotated his head away from the flat side and turned his bed so he could
look outward from the other side. I almost never put him down on his
back or swing. But to no avail, it didn't get much rounder. So we went
in to a specialist down in St. George who proceeded to tell us that it
was little flat (not terribly bad) but that because he was almost 9
months old, if we did decided to get one he would have to have it on for
6-9 months instead of 6 weeks because his head growth has dramatically
slowed down. Well Mr. Pediatrician, that would have been nice to know!
Who knew we were on a time sensitive matter here? Anyways, I could
tell by the weird doctors response that it was a little flat but clearly
not the worst he has seen and I think if he wasnt trying to make money
off me and this helmet that he probably would have just said its not too
bad and his head will probably round out on its own. Thats kind of the
uncertainty I got for him. (Note to doctors, if you going to suggest a
treatment, SOUND CONFIDENT). Blah. Anyways so we went home only to
find out weeks later that our insurance will not cover it because it is
considered cosmetic. What the? So it was going to be $1800 out of our
own pocket for a helmet that he maybe didnt need? Would it grow out on
its own? Probably. Will his hair probably cover it up? Probably So
we basically decided no.....for a few weeks. Then one day I am online
and I suddenly decided to google search if there are grown ups that wish
they would have had something done to their skulls when they were
young. This was bad idea. Of course I find all these people cursing
their parents for not fixing their misshapen heads and that they cant
wear hats or certain hair-do's because of their head shape. Well this
starts giving me anxiety. Time was running out, he was getting older,
and the time to act while his head was still growing fast has really
already past but will peak at around a year. And now I dont want him to
have some life long insecurity about his head that I could've prevented
somehow. Anyways, so I change my mind again and want the helmet for
him. Cordelle thinks I am nuts but caves and just says, "Lets just do
it or we will always wonder "what if." And I know he was right. So we
go down to St. George for a fitting, but now I start second guessing
myself. I am looking at the pictures of the other babies and then
looking at Collin and his head really wasn't that bad. Was I jumping
the gun because of my paranoia? UGGHHH! Why am I so indecisive and why
does this time it have to be over something that is $1800??? So long
story a little less long :), we ended up getting the helmet and I cried
all the way home regretting it! Am I bipolar or what? Weird. I was so
emotional about it. He was screaming and sweating in it. And I was
kicking myself and really having buyers remorse about the whole thing,
but I was committed to it and like or not, he had to wear it. And in all
reality, he actually adjusted to it really well, and ironically slept
better than he did without it. It did get stinky and sweaty and so we
had to get in the habit of washing it 1-2 times a day but he really
didn't mind. Matter of fact I think he liked the fact that he could
fall, run into walls, corners, whatever and almost not be phased. When
he would get his one hour off for the day, he would get so many bumps
and bruises cause he was used to be invincible. :) Turns out though he
only had it on for nearly 2.5 months! Although I still think he
probably should have left it on longer, the weird doctor said it looked
pretty good and would continue to round out by the time he was 3.
Secretly, I think he was blowing smoke out of his ears most of the time,
but it did round out a little and I honestly had to get to the point
that I believed it is what it is and if he's insecure about it one day, I
can at least say, "hey son, we tried." I do get a little nostalgic when I see other babies with them now.
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This
is the only picture I could find to really show the shape of the back
of the head. You can see the top back part is pretty flat, so I guess
it was a good thing we got the dreaded helmet! |